If Someone Says “No Huge Gifts,” Are They Lying?

Did you and your partner chat this year about not wanting to exchange gifts?

My boyfriend and I have had that talk.  My father and I have also had that talk.  But it just doesn't work.

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We Are managing to "tone it down", and not get anything that isn't useful or isn't needed.  Which I guess is a compromise.  For example, I just got this (basically on points, I didn't actually pay money for it) for NJ.

I mean, you see it, right?  The box right there?

Why HE didn't see it until I pointed it out for him, I don't know. I swear, I took a picture afterwards to prove to myself that it was, you know, kinda obvious. In a jokey way, guys, nothing serious.  But he was very happy to see it!  But, he did need it, he's a one cup a day guy, but that cup is VERY important.

But what if you have someone in your life who is very, VERY insistent that they just don't want a gift? Is it a good idea to go with it, or what?

Even if that’s the case, it’s still a lovely idea to surprise them with a present! According to a recent survey, only 12% of people believe that when someone says they don’t want gifts, they truly mean it and would actually be upset if they received one.

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On the flip side, 45% think that person might just think they don't want gifts but would actually be happy to get something special. And a good 23% feel pretty sure that they really do want a gift and might be a bit let down if you don’t give them one. So, a thoughtful present could really brighten their day!

I personally don't know.  I know some people probably have their reasons for not wanting a gift....  I guess you're gonna have to take the knowledge I've given and just... apply it to your situation. I still say the best route to go is to get them something they can use, that's practical.  Maybe they won't think that's a waste of money?

Good luck out there!

Giftingly yours,
Behka